Being calm doesn't mean being a flat character.
I'm being quiet most of the time is not because i'm afraid to fight back or afraid of any conflict or anything that has to do with cowardice, even though you think you're right and *insert name here* is wrong, blablabla...
I used to fight back, i don't care who they are, and after that i learned from it that it's just gonna make things worse, then what is the best action then? Let go.
Let them do what they wanna do, just take care your own core moral belief system. Only control what you can control; YOURSELF.
Not everyone can do it, cuz it needs strong willpower, high intellect and emotional maturity. If you can do it, you actually have won, so be proud.
Stubbornness, arrogant, jealousy, all these bad traits can be manipulate or divert into good use actually. For example, use your stubbornness to fight any bad influences. Use your arrogant to love yourself. You can use ur jealousy to be the best version of yourself by competing with your past self.
You see, not everything that is bad is only good at being bad. It's like negative and positive charge, yin and yang, night and day, shadow and light. Realistically, not everything is black and white, we need each other to balancing the equilibrium like how the right brain needs the left brain to balance things out.
So when your parents or anyone older nag at you, don't try to fight back. Just treat it as emotional challenge, winning by letting go.
A little suffering is good for the soul.
Always remember that we are all bad men living among bad men, and only one thing that can calm us; we must agree to go easy on one another.
I'm being quiet most of the time is not because i'm afraid to fight back or afraid of any conflict or anything that has to do with cowardice, even though you think you're right and *insert name here* is wrong, blablabla...
I used to fight back, i don't care who they are, and after that i learned from it that it's just gonna make things worse, then what is the best action then? Let go.
Let them do what they wanna do, just take care your own core moral belief system. Only control what you can control; YOURSELF.
Not everyone can do it, cuz it needs strong willpower, high intellect and emotional maturity. If you can do it, you actually have won, so be proud.
Stubbornness, arrogant, jealousy, all these bad traits can be manipulate or divert into good use actually. For example, use your stubbornness to fight any bad influences. Use your arrogant to love yourself. You can use ur jealousy to be the best version of yourself by competing with your past self.
You see, not everything that is bad is only good at being bad. It's like negative and positive charge, yin and yang, night and day, shadow and light. Realistically, not everything is black and white, we need each other to balancing the equilibrium like how the right brain needs the left brain to balance things out.
So when your parents or anyone older nag at you, don't try to fight back. Just treat it as emotional challenge, winning by letting go.
A little suffering is good for the soul.
Always remember that we are all bad men living among bad men, and only one thing that can calm us; we must agree to go easy on one another.
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