So yeah...we all make mistakes. Nobody is perfect as everyone would say. So why is apologizing so damn hard to do? Most of us like to be the recipient of a heartfelt apology, but giving is different than receiving, isn’t it?
I’m sure you’ve figured out, there are many reasons why saying “I’m sorry” is such a challenging thing to do. First of all, who likes to admit they’re wrong? or admit they’re wrong when they aren’t? It’s Not fun! IT'S ANNOYING!!
or maybe we're just too arrogant...
Sometimes it’s the fear of rejection that makes an apology so hard to say. The fact of getting a cold treatment, not being forgiven or losing a friend can be understandably be unsettling. Especially when it comes from someone you care about and want to maintain a relationship with, any relationship here i mean. Sometimes people feel that giving an apology is a sign of weakness, at times they even get annoyed with the word it self.
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
The sign of weakness?
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Catering Management Assignment
Saturday, April 2, 2011
What do you think of EGO
It's a bad thing! uh oohh!
Actually it's not really a bad thing but it can get worse cuz it can affect our mind and overall life if not being proper control.
Most people would say,
"GOSH!!! he/she is so egoistic who only knows to brag!...budu punya orang"
that indictment is just too simple, and don't you think the way the person who got mad at the bragger is the same in some way as well?
"Everybody likes a compliment." -Abraham Lincoln-
No one is born EGOISTIC, nobody.
But then, the moment the mother or parents started to pamper and love the child, the little thing- i mean the baby feeling good with all those pampering and love...
THUS EGO IS BORN
Everyone love being nurture and wanna feels good and secure, and that is what makes most people's goal in life the so-called 'The Pursue of Happiness'.
"If you want to test a man's character, give him power." -Abraham Lincoln-
As we grow in life, we're being matured by the ongoing stimulus that we receive everyday and we all still want to feel good in any way by achieving success, get more money, power, leadership, physical beauty and superiority, glamor...etc and without us realize, it raise our EGO.
"Humans will never feel satisfy, they will always want more just for the sake of their pleasure."
From that on, it then becomes part of our life.
and you think it's not difficult to control it? You think you're not part of those egoistic society? Then answer these questions;
Do you love being criticized?
and will you ever accept critic?
or perhaps you're the one who criticize other?
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Like i said, everyone is EGO, but EGO is not always portray as a bad image in person's life. It can help boosting one's moral and confident. It can also acted as a defense mechanism to ensure survival.
But once a person get too much praise, too much success, there's lie a feeling of insecurity. They will started to think,
"Can i achieve that? can i achieve this? what if i fail? what if i can't"
An arrogant people will hide all these feeling by not bothering it, being uncaring and selfish.
If i can't have it! No one can!
Egoistic people hate being put beneath other people, but instead they like putting other beneath them. They do realize it, and don't give a shit about it anyway.
Arrogant people are loner
Love yourself makes you a loner, imagine that all ur friends are self-loving bunch.
These are the common traits of an EGOISTIC people;
-inflexibility
-rigidity
-uncompromising
-not bothered
-uncaring
-ignoring attitude
-selfish
As we go on in life, these become important characteristics of our personality dynamics. Slowly life becomes hell when ever there is a U turn. Most turn mental wrecks because they would not lower their ego levels and thus become loners.
Egoistic have great difficulty in maintaining and developing relationships (because of those traits above),
team working, extending and receiving cooperation. They always feel they are right. Their ego does not allow them to accept mistakes or tender apologies.
Being arrogant is not always gonna make you cool, but do we realize that?
"yea~ so what?"
Loving yourself is good but thinking that you are the best is...errgghh...
there is a very thin line between 'pride and ego.' The former helps and motivates the latter leads to downfall and ultimate destruction.
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that's why i tried so hard to learn to be humble.
There are some ways to control our EGO which will be up on the next post. ^^
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Setiap kali saya pandu kereta Suzuki
kereta Suzuki third-hand tu, mesti saya teringat kata dadi saya pada tahun lalu bulan November.
"Dad: VIRUT! ko pandai memandu uda ka? kalo pndai ko guna tu kereta suzuki p berlumba.
Virut: O______O
Dad: berlumba di bukit, masuk hutan, lumba cari langsat! memang manang(menang) punya ni!"
lol
Monday, March 7, 2011
At 1.40A.M. (Friday)
and Rest In Peace grandpa
I have no time to feel emotional about this, it's not that i don't care about my granpa, he's actually my best friend, my closest grandpa than my other grandpa and grandma since i was still 6. But then i know his time will come at last. Since i've encountered a best friend death from a car accident before, so i tried to disconnect some of my feeling about this man. You can say this is a defense mechanism to protect myself from having the same troublesome emotional feeling until everyone called im a cold-hearted person during his burial time.
I still remember his last word for me, it was "Jangan tinggalkan saya! saya mahu balik rumah!!"
means "Don't leave me! I want to go home!" He said when being detained at the hospital.
There's one time i still prepare food for my grandpa at my house (yes my granpa staying at my family's house), i forgot that he already 'tingtong' at that time....mmmm
ow well, it's time for pearl milk tea!
;DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
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Penat saya jadi driver setiap hari, beli barang makanan lah apa lah dan layan budak-budak...mmmmm
Sunday, February 27, 2011
ABC about you, also known as LONG ASS SURVEY.
The ABCs!
A - AVAILABLE: let me scream first...NOOOOO~~
B - BIRTHDAY:August 10
C- CRUSHING ON: my cat
D - DRINK YOU LAST HAD: Avocado Juice ;D
E - EASIEST PERSON TO TALK TO: Imaginary friend
F - FAVORITE SONG AT THE MOMENT: Ready When You Are by Brighten
H - HOMETOWN: Kota Kinabalu
I - IN LOVE WITH: my computer
J - JUGGLE: How?
K - KILLED SOMEONE: Kill yourself
L - LONGEST CAR RIDE: 12 hours from Sandakan to Poropok to Kota Kinabalu
M- MILKSHAKE FLAVOR: Chocolate is good for antioxidant..mmmm
N - NUMBER OF SIBLINGS: FOUR is death
O - ONE WISH: SUCCESS IN everything i do, i don't care what is it.
P - PERSON YOU CALLED LAST: My granpa's name is "urang tua"
R- REASON TO SMILE: ........... =] ...........im not smiling
S - SONG YOU LAST HEARD: Mindless Self Indulgence(MSI) - Stupid MF
T - TIME YOU WOKE UP: Usually 8.00am or sometimes 7 something AM.
U - UNDERWEAR COLOR: Let me check first....mmmm...
V - VEGETABLE(S): Any Leafy Vegetables, and Broccoli
W - WORST HABIT: errr....As**
X - X-RAYS YOU'VE HAD MOST RECENTLY: When i still 16, something wrong with my jaw at that time
Y - YOYOS ARE: YOYOS?
Z - ZODIAC SIGN: Leo (August) + Goat (Chinese horoscope)
RANDOM QUESTIONS ABOUT YOU
Your favorite number: 3
What color do you wear most: Black
Least favorite color: Pink makes me goosebumps
What are you listening to: Rebirth by Ill Nino
Are you happy with your life right now: Always the neutral brat
What is your favorite class in school: after class then after class again
Who is your best friend: My sweater
Are you outgoing: What do you think?
Favorite pair of shoes: NONE
Can you dance?: no
Can you tie a cherry stem with your mouth: Lemme try first...&cough* *cough* Cough*...!!
Can you whistle: After i put a bird in my mouth
Cross your eyes: Oki
Walk with your toes curled: Sure...mmmm
Do you believe there is life on other planets: You
Do you believe in miracles: Ow yea i do
Do you believe in magic: YES! ;D
Love at first sight: Anything is possible
Do you believe in Satan: I believe in Santa
Do you believe in Santa: Big fat old man with a friggin badass beard, that's him alright...IDK
Do you know how to swim: I'm so good! i could drown!
Do you like roller coasters: What's that? <---noob here
Do you think you could handle the stuff they eat on those reality show: Which one?
Have you ever been on a plane: Yes.
Have you ever asked someone out: With friends? yea
Have you ever been to the ocean: Yepperz
Have you ever painted your nails: Someone do it for me...
THE WHATS
What is the temperature outside: HOT! It's always summer here.
What radio station do you listen to: HitZ FM (M.Y Station)
What was the last restaurant you ate at: Kak Nong (is that how it spells like?)
What was the last thing you bought: Avocado Juice
What was the last thing on TV you watched: History Channel
THE WHOS
Who was the last person you IM'd: NONE
Who was the last person you took a picture of: mmmm.... Gerard Jerome Jiniing?
Who was the last person you said I love you to: My rice
CRYING SECTION
Ever really cried your heart out: My heart is so dry
Ever cried yourself to sleep: ow yea...some dreams sure can make me cry somehow...mmmm
Ever cried on your friend's shoulder: NEVER
Ever cried over the opposite sex: nope
Do you cry when you get an injury: Not anymore
Do certain songs make you cry: mmmm...only feeling sad but never cry...mmmm
HAPPY SECTION
Are you a happy person?: Used to be very hyper, now I'm in between <.> (blame my strange mood swing)
LOOK AT ME
(look at you??)
What is your current hair color: Natural Black
CURRENTLY WEARING
What shirt are you wearing: Brown + yellow shirt
Pants: Black jeans
Shoes: Barefoot, cannot wear shoes at home or a spoon flying to my face.
Necklaces: I don't wear any. I know im suck at fashion sense...mmmm
Underwear: AAAAAHHH!! a hamster got in!
IN A BOY/GIRL
Favorite eye color: Natural color
Short or long hair: Whatever suits~
HAVE YOU EVER:
Been to jail: Nah~
Mooned someone: I did? oh shit!
Thought about suicide: No fucking way!
Laughed so hard you cried: HAHAHAHA...*cough* *cough*...*dead*
Cried in school: NEVER
Thrown up in a store: BUUARRRGGHHH....
Wanted to be a model: Not interested
Seen a dead body: Ya...mmmm
Been on drugs: Medicine, cig, coffee?
Gone skinny dipping: Me never nude...
THIS OR THAT:
Pepsi or Coke: Or
McDonald's or Burger King: KFC
Single or Group Dates: Loner
Chocolate or Vanilla: Both =D
Strawberries or Blueberries: Avocadoberry
Meat or Veggies: BOTH ;D
TV or Movie: Movie
Guitar or Drums: BOTH
Adidas or Nike: The 'I don't care' brand.
Chinese or Mexican: Fusion
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Wednesday, February 23, 2011
The Sims 3 ep 1: Leon and The Graveyard
Once upon a time in...errr...
SKIP!!!
Once upon a time, there were two young adult dudes living together in a small house which original belongs to Lint, but Leon move in for we don't know apparent reason at the moment
(the past will be told next time). Lint and Leon are like Water and Fire, Lint is a calm musician and quite snarky...errr, while Leon is a hot-headed and quite a jerkass dude(maybe).
One day, Leon went to the graveyard and...
The story continues..dot..dot..dot..dot.....
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(After got home...)
the no other than cooking show!
trolling on the net.
i should study more how to do evil laugh in front of tha mirror.
well...in front of the main door.
Lint: A development i see, i think im gonna see another rejection after this...
Leon: hey bebeh, wanna sleep next to me?
